The thing is, you’re just not going to be on a queer-friendly Pleroma server that hasn’t defederated bv.umbrellix.org. It just doesn’t exist. We’ve defederated most of the most toxic places, and the queer-friendly places have defederated us due to things like this https://bv.umbrellix.org/notice/AZwi9Is6mxT9vo5TSi and this https://mastodon.top/@ellenor2000/111222571557620526.
We’re all alone. An island with sea for hundreds of kilometers in every direction.
You can sail on in at our invite link: https://bv.umbrellix.org/registration/FXlgc-qZnv9T9zGkf2_KXOiE-KCIwQWBK4QwlnbAwF8=